why do my friends do this to me ?
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anytime a guy is interested in me my friends usually try and make a play for them . like this one night I went out and seen this guy on the dance floor and thought to myself wow but I didnt pay to much atention cause I thought to myself he would never like me but its funny because when the end of the night rolled around he came up and talked to me . while he was trying to talk to me my friend kept interupting and trying to flirt with him he ignored her and kept talking to me .he wanted my # but we couldnt find a pen to write it down so he said what is it? I told him . he walked me outside the bar to find my other friend as he left he kept reapeating my number as he walked off the parking lot wich was kinda cute he said I remember see and I will remember later . just as this was going on the flirty friend from the bar went up to him and said for him to take her cell number . the other friend that was with me was really mad he said thats so disrespectful to do that to you .he called the other friend names and said that guy was all about you and she had to jump in he was so mad .then as we rode away he said he seen my friend over there talking to the guy he said she must of followed him to his car . I told my friend that was upset that it was no big deal I dont even know that guy then he explained to me that he was mad because she was disrespecting me he said you just dont do that to people . I wasnt that upset but then when I started to think about it I thought you know that was kinda messed up .guess I am kinda used to this kinda thing my friends have always done stuff to me thats simular to this .I wonder why ??

asked by Anonymous on Wednesday, November 19, 2008 - 01:46 | PROVIDE UPDATE

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harleygirl:

First of all, people who do that aren't friends. They're insecure brats who can't stand the thought of someone else getting more attention than they are. In the future, I suggest going out to a club/bar by yourself or without these "friends" so you can enjoy yourself without these parasites. If they find out and get offended, so what? What do you have to lose? A "friend"?

2008-11-19 07:03
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b0xxx:

First of all, your peer group sounds like it's first come, first served, every woman for herself. That's fine. If you are ok with that, then be more aggressive about the guys you want -- get to them first.

You've made this way too complicated. What you should be getting upset about is that YOU sit on the sidelines too long to run with the crowd you've chosen. Get in the game, playa.

2008-11-20 10:46
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TRACEY:

LISTEN YOUR FRIEND HAD EVERY RIGHT TO FELL WHAT HE FELT BECAUSE HE'S RIGHT... NO FIRST THINGS FIRST STOP CALLING THAT OTHER FEMALE YOUR FRIEND BECAUSE A FRIEND SHE'S NOT. I'M UPSET AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU, BABE YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO LEARN THAT PEOPLE ONLY TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU ALLOW THEM TO AND WHEN YOU DO THE SAME THING ALL OF THE TIME YOU COME UP WITH THE SAME RESULTS. RESULTS THAT THAT DON'T WORK IN FAVOR OF YOU OR THOSE FEELINGS YOU MAY BE HAVING. SO START STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF FIND YOUR VOICE AND LET IT BE HEARD. LASTLY YOU MAY ALREADY KNOW THIS BUT I'LL SAY IT ANYWAY EVERYONE THAT STANDS IN YOUR FACE AND AT YOUR SIDE ISN'T ALWAYS A FRIEND MAYBE THEY ARE THERE BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO WHERE ELSE TO BE.

2008-11-23 00:21