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I just need to know why when you are really nice to people they take advantage of you ?? I have notice anytime I do a nice gesture people dont apreciate it and sometimes they are mean about it expecting more than what you can give them . like for example I helped out with a baby shower for my cousin . I was only supose to help out thats means maybe bring a few things but my cousins mother in law who I was helping had me bring a whole bunch of stuff and I didnt mind but she also wanted some money towards the food and things she bought . now mind you I love my cousin and its not even the money thats the issue its the way her mother in law treated me . one point in time at the shower I was standing by the wall not eating my cousins niece was also not eating well my cousins mother inlaw said to my cousin niece arent you going to eat the girl said no but I was standing there too and she didnt tell me to eat . also I was writing down what everyone bought my cousin and at one time I said to my cousin hold up I didnt write that gift down so her mother inlaw said stop to my cousin lets take a break she said it really nasty and everyone was looking at me she riped the next present my cousin was going to open out of her hand she embarassed me because I didnt write a gift down quick enough I found it very rude to do that to me . why did she make a scene like that like I was dumb ?? she was so mean to me at this shower there are to many things to post about . when it was almost time for me to leave my cousin husband told my cousin to thank me my cousin said I did he then said keep thanking her until she walks out that door it was nice of him to say that . you know when my cousin and hubby were thanking me the mother in law didnt thank me not then not before not after she never thaked me at even when they were talking about all the nice things I did . cousins hubby told me to take food home the mother in law would run in the kitchen to make sure I didnt take to much home it made me not want to take anything . hey I bought most of the party she didnt even want me to eat or take a plate home . whats wrong with this women ?? |
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marinemj:yeah, she's just some bitch. clearly her son is nice to you, so forget about her- who cares? let her say whatever she wants. just ignore her and do your thing.
2008-07-21 10:12
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harleygirl:
Some women are just controlling bitches. Just be glad she's not YOUR mother-in-law! You can either resort to her level of rudeness, or kill her with kindness. When she didn't ask you if you were eating, you should have said, "What a fabulous idea! I believe I'll get a bite to eat." Then you could have taken your cousin's niece by the hand and said, "Let's go get something together." When the gifts were being opened and the mother-in-law was being nasty, you could have said to her (in a sugary voice), "I'm afraid I'm falling behind. I'll bet you could handle this much better." Then hand her the pen and paper. That would shut her up. As for the food? "Oh, my goodness. I think I will take a little home with me. It all looked so good when I was picking it out." Look her straight in the eye when you say it. Things like that, to put her in her place. You have to stand up for yourself or people will trample all over you.