I need advice i think my boyfriend is gay or maybe bisexual |
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A couple of days ago i caught my boyfriend of three years jacking off to gay porn. He has never even given me a hint that he is interested in men. I have also caught him jacking off to straight porn. When i caught him jacking off to the gay porn he was really getting into it and he really got off on it. It seemed to me he got off more on the gay porn than he did on the straight porn. I am really confused. He jacks off to porn alot, but this is the first time i have caught him jacking off to gay porn. He has never made me think he is interesed in men. Is it possible that he is gay or bisexual and has been hiding it from me his friends and family. He has even been married before.PLEASE HELP!!!! |
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marinemj:hmmm...part of me says "no big deal...let it go but watch for other signs." but i do think it warrants a conversation with him. because most stright guys would not watch gay porn, even for a minute. so, have a talk with him. try not to be accusatory, but let him know this is something you saw and you want to know what he was thinking and if this is something he feels he needs to explore. expect him to get defensive, but try to just be gentle and nice about it.
2008-08-17 16:32
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liss21860:IF he jacks off that much, it sounds like he has a more than average sexual appetite. If you are wanting to know what turns him on ask him. If he didn't want you to know he would have been more careful not to let you catch him. If he's that open about masturbating in front of you, then maybe that's his way of getting you to confront him.
2008-09-06 01:25
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Inah:
It's possible, but I wouldn't worry too much. If you have suspicions about him for other reasons it may be a concern, but after three years you should be able to see whatever red flags there may be in your relationship.
I'm a girl and I watch porn. Some of this porn contains sexual acts I'd never want to personally try. You can look at porn without wanting to act it out.