Different Partners

This is completely a matter of what you want from your relationship and how you view sex. If you are looking for someone who is fully committed and only there for you then this isn't going to be something you accept and the fact he even considers it may mean he's not the one for you. Some people like maintaining open relationships though. If you can live with the fact that he can/will at any time sleep with someone else then there shouldn't be any problems.

My personal opinion would be to dump him; but I'm the kind of person that expects my partner to be completely there for me and only me. I don't view sex as a casual act.

I agree with 23. If you don't mind having a boyfriend who will expose you to whatever he's exposing himself to, then I guess you're in an open relationship. As for me, I wouldn't even be asking advice about this. I'd tell the bum to go have fun with his whores, because this bitch don't budge.

there is no "should." if you don't mind, you don't, so go with it. if you do mind, tell him to take a hike. i'd sure as hell mind.

Certainly. One cannot have a lover who is not physically there (pun intended). That defeats the purpose by very definition!! Unless both of you like to play mental games...

Good luck.

I'd look for a new boyfriend where you live - your relationship with your current boyfriend doesn't seem to include sexual fidelity once you are no longer nearby. This puts you at risk for STD's.

I totally agree with ravjav. If he really loved you he wouldn't want someone else. Miles can put a strain on a relationship, and that one dosen't seem serious if he is looking elsewhere. I too would be worried about STDs also, as well as feeling like I would be the one playing second fiddle, since the new girl would be closer, and eventually you would be not so important anymore. Find a nice guy that lives close that you can build a relationship with, that will respect you.