Am I in love? I dont know..i need advice..bad! what do i do?! |
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So...i met this girl freshman year in highschool. We became friends real quick. Things just clicked and we became the best of friends. Slowly, i began to grow this huge crush on her...i mean...really big..but i never did or said anything about it. I was just the nice guy...you know..the one she runs to for advice or a shoulder to lean on. Anyways.. i got shipped off to Private school, specifically a military school junior year until i graduated high school. I lost connections and contact with almost everyone. Upon comin back, I ran into this girl again and we continued on like nothing ever happened. By now, she was dating a good friend of mine, specifically, my best friend. Anyways, my crush for her sitll lingered but I still never did anything. It was a crush and I just left it at that. My bestfriend had a younger brother who he babysat at night since both his parents worked night jobs. Me and this girl began hanging out all the time at night. As their relationship progressed, so did their fighting. She would always run to me for comfort and to chill and whatnot. Well..one thing led to another and things kinda just escalated. We ended up having sex...on numerous occasions and eventually began to date. The relationship didnt last long as we were best of friends and it was just the whole akwardness. We grew kinda distant as we both started community college and full-time jobs. Eventually, we just clicked again and started hanging out again. Now...my thing is..im still constantly thinkin bout her...like I think she's beautiful...perfect...everything I would want in a girl i see in her...and i cant get her out of my mind. I recently moved to a different state and we talk on the phone occassionally. But shes always on my mind. |
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nothinbut smiles:i think you should do whatever feels right. if you have her on your mind constantly then i think you should let her know and tell her how you feel. dont keep it bottled up inside any longer. i mean you'v had a crush on her all these years so you obviously want to be with her. dont let the opportunity pass you by. so go talk to her and tell her.
2007-12-05 16:37
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angeleyes:well ring her at least 2 times a week and if that ain't enough then move back and beg for her to come back to you!
2007-12-06 01:21
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keri's:You may be more infatuated than in love. There is a big difference and there are books on the subject. You are young and you need to find out how you stand with her. Only then can you can move forward. WITH HER OR WITHOUT HER but get on with life. What I'm trying to stress here is that you should not waste your youth in a big fat day dream...you need to seek out the answer. Either you'll be a couple or you won't...FIND OUT NOW so you can start getting over her if it's not in the stars for you two to be a couple. If you spend your days pinning for someone you may never have then where will that leave you? What opportunities will you have missed out on, how many other relationships will you be offering up to the day dream god while chasing a dream or infatuation? Good Luck
2008-06-17 13:46
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whatdoyoumeancookie:
two rules of thumb i try to live by:
1) don't fuck your best friend's girlfriend
2) don't start a relationship with someone who you were fucking when they were with someone else. they will cheat on you too.